Love can occur in different versions of our realities and even fantasies. However, it is all about perspective. It can appear in the passion of a fresh relationship or the comfort of a long-term relationship. It may be found in the grind of study or work, or sometimes it might just be about taking a step back and flying solo.
Being in a relationship is like being in an all-encompassing lavender haze, deeply and passionately in love with who could be one’s significant other. But being single is not a void; it’s a chance to grow, recharge, and learn to appreciate yourself even more than others ever could.
So, if you’re flying solo at the moment, why not fully embrace it? Whether you’re looking to relax, explore, or just do something special for yourself, here are a few solo date ideas to try this February.
Brew-tiful escapes
Whether you’re in the mood for aesthetic vibes, delicious brews, or simply a cozy corner to unwind, discover hidden gems in the Metro and beyond by cafe hopping.
- Ani Cafe (Comuna, Makati) – If you’re looking for a chill and aesthetically pleasing vibe, Ani Cafe offers just that. Relax and savor their delightful menu while basking in the calm atmosphere.
- The Farmhouse Cafe (Norzagaray, Bulacan) – For those seeking a peaceful retreat from the city buzz, head north and experience the serene ambiance of this IG worthy farmhouse-themed cafe while enjoying their menu with a side of board games. Customers can also join their watch party during their scheduled movie nights.
- 10/23 Cafe (Imus, Cavite) – A cozy spot in the south, perfect for anyone who loves a quiet cafe escape with scenic views and a warm atmosphere.
Each cafe offers an experience to slow down, savor the little moments, and simply enjoy your own company. You can never go wrong with a cup of joe.
You can buy yourself flowers and other nice things
Manila, the bustling capital of the Philippines, offers a blend of modernity and history, where vibrant markets and old-world charms intertwine. If you’re looking for a day out that’s both refreshing and nostalgic, look no further than Dangwa Flower Market and the nearby Escolta district for quirky, vintage finds.
As early as the 1980s, florists have stationed along Dimasalang Street, establishing an array of vibrant shops offering a variety of fresh and affordable flowers perfect for any occasion. Dangwa is particularly famous, especially during Valentine’s Day in February, when friends, partners, significant others, or even singles go about their way to pick a bouquet or more.
A short trip to the nearby historic street of Escolta, an assortment of vintage shops, art galleries, museums, and cafes gives the perfect opportunity for a historic stroll along the area’s storied past.
Sing it out loud!
February is shaping up to be a music lover’s dream as local and international artists are set to take center stage in the Philippines. Go online, get that ticket, and immerse yourself in the magic of live performances, including:
- Niki ‘Buzz’ World Tour (Feb. 11 & 12 with additional tour date on March 1) – SM Mall of Asia Arena, Pasay City
- The Script: ‘Satellites’ World Tour (Feb. 11 & 12) – Smart Araneta Coliseum, Quezon City
- BINI: BINIverse World Tour 2025 (Feb. 15) – Philippine Arena, Bulacan
- The CORRS (Feb. 15 & 16) – Smart Araneta Coliseum, Quezon City
- Day6: ‘FOREVER YOUNG’ World Tour (Feb. 22) – Smart Araneta Coliseum, Quezon City; and more lined up artists.
Check other scheduled concert events this month at https://billboardphilippines.com/music/features/.
Escape to the great outdoors
If you’re in the mood for a little adventure, there’s no better way to reconnect with the great outdoors than by immersing yourself in the natural beauty the Philippines has to offer.
For nature enthusiasts and thrill-seekers alike, climbing the famous Mt. Pulag in Benguet should definitely be a part of your bucket list. Known as the “sea of clouds,” it is one of the highest mountains of the country and Luzon’s highest peak.
As an alternative, a trek to Mt. Pinatubo in Zambales is sure to leave you in awe. Famous for its eruption in 1991, visitors now hike the mountain to witness the Pinatubo Crater Lake. The trek is considered to be relatively easy and a good option for beginners.
For those being called by the sea, a trip to La Union offers a coastal paradise with laid-back vibes, scenic sunsets, surfing spots, and white sand beaches. Whether you’re up for scaling mountain peaks or unwinding by the sea, nature’s healing touch is never too far away in the Philippines.
Staycation for one
Take the time to catch up on the movies and TV shows you’ve been meaning to watch. With food delivery options online, you can indulge in your favorite comfort food with an online shopping spree to treat yourself to your cart’s desires. The best part? You get to hit the hay whenever you feel like it.
You may be in a relationship or not, but we all need time for ourselves—a time to reflect and gather our own. Prioritize you. This is your sign to take yourself on a solo date. If you want to, you can—and you should.
